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Romantic Things to Do on Valentine’s Day… When You’re Single and Unbothered

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Valentine’s Day is coming up, and we all know that feeling. The flowers, the chocolates, the romantic dinners… and the fact that you’re single and possibly sitting at home in your favorite sweatpants, living your best life. But fear not, fellow singletons! You can still make the day feel special—even if it’s just you, your couch, and a pint of ice cream. Here are three romantic things you can do on Valentine’s Day without needing a date.

1. Treat Yourself to a Date (With Yourself)

Who says you need another person to feel special? Plan a romantic evening for one. Light some candles (you know, the kind that scream “I have my life together”), put on your fanciest sweatpants, and cook up a delicious dinner that only you will appreciate. Maybe even pop open a bottle of wine, or, let’s be real, crack open that 12-pack of your favorite soda. Take yourself out on the most romantic date you can imagine. You deserve it, and if you’re anything like me, you’re the only person who can really understand your true charm.

Pro Tip: Leave a little note to yourself: “You’re amazing. No one is more deserving of a whole pizza than you. XOXO, Me.”

2. Get Cozy with Netflix and Cry Over a Rom-Com

Sure, you’re not getting any flowers this year, but who needs that when you have Netflix and emotional vulnerability? Make yourself a cozy fort of blankets and pillows, and then let the tears flow as you watch The Notebook for the 17th time in a row. Sure, it’s a bit tragic, but nothing says “romantic” like pretending you have your life together while watching fictional characters fall in love.

Pro Tip: Keep some tissues handy, but remember that wiping away your tears with chocolate wrappers is a perfect (and budget-friendly) solution.

3. Write a Love Letter… to Your Favorite Snack

Who needs a Valentine when you’ve got perfectly seasoned French fries, right? Write a passionate love letter to your favorite snack, expressing all the feelings you never got to share with a human. Go ahead, pour your heart out to the bag of chips or the pint of ice cream you’ll be devouring later.

Here’s an example:
“Dear Ice Cream,
You are the peanut butter to my jelly, the sweet to my salty. When I spoon you out of your tub, I feel a connection deeper than anything I’ve ever felt before. You’re the best part of my day. Forever yours,
Me.”

Pro Tip: Read the letter aloud in your best dramatic voice for full effect. Bonus points for adding a tear or two.

Remember, Valentine’s Day is about love, and sometimes the best kind of love is the love you give to yourself (and your snacks). Enjoy the day, whether you’re single or just in a committed relationship with your couch.

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Book Review & Author Interview: The Sun Under A Night Sky by Vontress Renae

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Plot Summary:

In this collection of untitled thoughts, poetry, and affirmations; Vontress plants her powerful feminine energy and wisdom like a seed. Showing growth through struggle, and sharing stories of blooming into a flower. She shines her light like the sun into the darkest parts of her soul.

Grade: A-

Review:

The poems in this collection are often dark, but even in the darkest moments, there is a tiny light that glimmers with hope. And this is what makes this collection stand out from other poems that tackle similar topics like love and heartbreak. The message Renae seems to want to give with these poems is that happiness isn’t something you should search in someone else, or depend on someone else for your own happiness, but rather that happiness lies inside us all if we have self-love and that’s an essential and potent message to give. I recommend this book if you’re into poetry that explores life’s dark moments but that has an uplifting message in the end.

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Short Q & A with the Author:

What has inspired your writing?

The inspiration for my writing comes from day to day life. I wonder what people think and put it on paper, my own stories and sometimes the stories of those around me.

When did you first start writing?

I have always written things for as long as I remember, but it was not until recently that I felt comfortable enough to share it with others.

What tips would you give a novice writer?

My advice would be to remove all distractions. There are times that I sign out of social media and take a bit of a hiatus in order to gather my thoughts and get them down clearly.

What’s the best writing advice you’ve been given?

The best advice I was given would be to do what makes me happy. I feel that my writing can take me all the places I want to go in this world I just have to trust myself and believe in what I’m saying on my pages.

What are you currently reading or looking forward to reading?

I am currently reading ” The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F” by Mark Manson. It has definitely been a page-turner and I plan to take a view of the tips that I have learned while reading.

RENAE ON THE WEB:
Website: https://vontressrortega.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/writtenbyvontress
Twitter: https://twitter.com/byvontress
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/writtenbyvontress/

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Book Review: Almost Home by Madisen Kuhn

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A gorgeous poetry and prose collection that explores the meaning of “home” and the profound discovery of finding it within oneself.

Release Date: October 1, 2019

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Publisher: Gallery Books

Price: $14.99 (paperback)

Plot Summary:

In this stunning third collection from Madisen Kuhn, Madisen eloquently analyzes some of life’s universal themes within the framework of a house. Whether it’s the garden, the bedroom, or the front porch, Madisen takes you into her own “home,” sharing some of the most intimate parts of her life so that you might also, someday, feel free to share some of yours.

Filled with beautiful hand-drawn illustrations from Melody Hansen, this boldly intimate, preternaturally wise, and emotionally candid collection encourages you to consider what home means to you—whether it’s in the lush, green-lawned suburbs or a city apartment—and, more importantly, explores how you can find it even when home feels like it’s on the far-off horizon.

Grade: B+

Review:

For someone like me who has been on the move since I was born, reading a book that explores the meaning of home was very relatable. What’s the difference between a house and a home? And how do you know when one feels just like a house and what makes a home a home? The poetry is very heartfelt and emotional. For some home is a physical place or location, while for others the meaning of home is a person. What makes us feel at home? Ultimately, it’s the place where we feel safe.

One of the most poignant lines was, “I am jealous of what you have but not of who you are. Regardless it withers me.” I’m sure many people have often felt this way, feeling envious of what someone may have but not being particularly keen on the person in question.

Many of the poems explore the meaning of finding a home within a person. I think that we all yearn to feel at home with someone, although oftentimes that is merely a mirage and we’re far lonelier together than when we are alone.

This poetry collection really hits a nerve for me because of my incessant search to feel at home. If you’re a fan of Rupi Kaur or Amanda Lovelace, then this book is for you.

*Thank you so much to NetGalley and Gallery Books for the digital copy of this book in exchange for an honest review!

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