Creative Ways to Boost Your Mental Wellness Every Day by Stephanie Haywood

For creative professionals, especially women writing horror while juggling pitching, deadlines, and the business side, daily mental wellness challenges often show up as a quiet loop: make the work, market the work, question the work, repeat. Even on “fine” days, creative work stress can turn into low-grade vigilance, comparison, and a constant sense of being behind, which makes the page feel heavier and the community harder to reach. Emotional health awareness matters here because the mind doesn’t separate craft from survival mode when the stakes feel personal and visibility feels scarce. The goal is simple: treat mental wellness importance as part of the job, not a luxury reserved for breakdowns.

Understanding Holistic Mental Health

Holistic mental health treats your mind as a living system, not a pass or fail test. It runs on a spectrum that shifts with sleep, hormones, money stress, deadlines, and loneliness. When standard advice feels too clinical or rigid, alternative wellness approaches and nontraditional therapies can offer flexible, personal ways to regulate your nervous system.

This matters because many people cannot access perfect care, or any care at all, and the proportion of adults reporting an unmet mental health care need increased from 9.2 percent to 11.7 percent. Think of it like revising a horror draft: you do not fix everything with one rule, you test what works. Some days that is talk therapy; other days it is breathwork, movement, sound, nature, or body-based grounding before you pitch.

Try 9 Outside-the-Box Mood Shifts (Pick One Today)

When holistic mental health feels like a big, blurry spectrum, it helps to have a menu: small moves you can try today and keep only if they actually fit your nervous system and your creative life.

  1. Do a 12-minute “forest bathing” loop: Walk slowly somewhere with trees and treat it like a sensory scavenger hunt, 5 shades of green, 3 textures of bark, 2 bird calls, 1 deep exhale you can feel in your ribs. The forest bathing benefits come from getting out of analysis mode and into your senses, which can downshift stress fast. If you’re a writer, end by noting one eerie detail you’d steal for a scene.
  2. Try birdwatching mindfulness, without needing to “know birds”: Stand still for five minutes and track movement rather than names: hop, glide, peck, vanish. Each time your brain jumps to deadlines, bring it back to “where did it go?” This is attention training for drafting days, gentle focus, low stakes, surprisingly grounding.
  3. Borrow the nervous-system reset of animal-assisted therapy: If you can’t access formal animal-assisted therapy, replicate the core ingredients: calm touch + steady rhythm + nonjudgmental presence. Spend 10 minutes brushing a pet, watching fish swim, or sitting near a friend’s dog while matching your breathing to their slow movements. Your goal isn’t “cheer up”, it’s “return to safe-enough.”
  4. Use one art therapy technique: scribble → shape → name: Set a timer for 7 minutes and scribble with your non-dominant hand, then circle three shapes you notice, then give each shape a title like a horror story (“The Polite Dread,” “Teeth in the Wallpaper”). This art therapy technique works because it externalizes emotion, your feelings become something you can look at, not something that’s swallowing you. Keep it messy on purpose.
  5. Practice tai chi for mental health with a 3-move micro-sequence: Do “shift weight left,” “shift weight right,” then “slow arm sweep” for 3 minutes total, moving like you’re underwater. Pair each movement with a simple phrase: here / now / steady. Tai chi mental health benefits often show up as better emotional regulation because you’re rehearsing calm in your body, not just thinking about it.
  6. Volunteer in a way that won’t drain you: Choose a 30–60 minute task with a clear end: packing donations, moderating a community forum, writing thank-you notes, walking shelter dogs. The volunteering emotional impact can be powerful because it converts stuck energy into meaningful action, especially on days when your own work feels haunted by perfectionism.
  7. Do a “creative arts & crafting” mood switch (tiny on purpose): Make something finishable in 15 minutes: fold an origami creature, stitch one inch of embroidery, collate zine pages, or assemble a mood board for your villain. Research in Frontiers in Public Health found that engagement with CAC predicted higher well-being, which is a good reminder that play counts as care, not a reward you have to earn.
  8. Build a “safe scare” container for big feelings: Pick one horror comfort clip, one song, and one grounding object (mug, stone, textured fabric). Watch/listen for 5 minutes, then immediately do 5-4-3-2-1 sensory grounding to close the container. You’re teaching your brain: we can visit intensity and come back.
  9. Run a 2-minute “body budget” check-in: Ask: What’s my energy level, tension level, and attention level from 1–10? Then choose one matching intervention, water, stretch, sunlight, quieter room, or one boundary email you don’t send yet. A tiny check like this makes it easier to turn mood support into a repeatable daily reset that starts on the page.

Habits That Keep Your Mind Drafting-Friendly

Ideas only become real support when they’re baked into your week. These habits give creative professionals and horror writers a steady baseline, so your daily writing practice can stay resilient even when deadlines, clients, and moods get loud.

One-Page Reset
  • What it is: Use a reset habit by flipping pages and writing one honest sentence.
  • How often: Daily, especially after interruptions.
  • Why it helps: It reduces shame spirals and restarts momentum quickly.
Three-Line Expressive Dump
  • What it is: Write three lines: “I feel,” “I need,” “I can do next.”
  • How often: Daily or before difficult writing sessions.
  • Why it helps: It turns emotion into a clear, actionable plan.
Horror-to-Helper Reframe
  • What it is: Turn one worry into a monster with a weakness.
  • How often: Weekly, during planning or edits.
  • Why it helps: It builds emotional distance and story material.
Business Boundary Draft
  • What it is: Draft one boundary email and save it unsent.
  • How often: Per client tension or scope creep.
  • Why it helps: It protects energy without impulsive conflict.

Quick Answers for Stressed, Overloaded Creatives

Q: What are some unconventional activities I can try to reduce everyday stress and boost my mental well-being?
A: Try “sensory scavenger hunts” (five things you see, four you feel, three you hear) to interrupt spiraling thoughts fast. You can also do a two-minute “mess-to-calm” sweep of one tiny area, or sketch a monster that represents your stress and give it a ridiculous weakness. Keep it playful, not perfect, and treat it as a quick reset, not a productivity test.

Q: How does writing regularly contribute to improving mental and emotional health?
A: Regular writing gives your feelings a container, so they stop leaking into every decision and scene. A short daily check-in can turn vague dread into named emotions and next actions, which reduces overwhelm. If shame tells you to hide, remember that 33.1% of first responders endorsed stigma items regarding mental health care, so you are not “weak,” you’re human.

Q: Can connecting with nature in different ways help me feel less overwhelmed and more balanced?
A: Yes, and it does not have to be a big hike. Try a “one-block noticing walk,” cloud-watching for three minutes, or watering a single plant while you breathe slowly. The goal is to give your nervous system something non-urgent to track.

Q: What simple daily habits can I adopt to support my emotional wellness amid a busy creative schedule?
A: Pick one low-friction experiment: a two-minute timer to start, a short stretch between client tasks, or a single sentence about what you need today. Then set a weekly check-in where you rate stress from 1 to 10 and adjust one small lever like sleep, caffeine, or boundaries. Small, repeatable wins beat occasional “perfect” self-care.

Q: If I feel stuck or uncertain about my creative direction, what structured learning options can help me regain motivation and clarity?
A: Structured learning can reduce uncertainty by giving you a clear sequence, feedback, and deadlines you did not have to invent. Look for a short course, a cohort workshop, or an accessible online master’s path in learning design and edtech, and, if you’re exploring that route, discover more information about what that kind of program can cover. Many learners pursue this kind of structure for genuine learning, not to prove anything.

Make One Daily Wellness Experiment Stick to Your Creative Practice

When deadlines stack and your inner critic gets loud, mental health motivation can start to feel like one more chore on the list. The steadier approach is to treat sustainable mental wellness like a creative draft: small, low-friction experiments, honest check-ins, and gentle edits instead of all-or-nothing pressure. Over time, a unique wellness integration can lower background stress, widen your imaginative range, and make your horror work feel less like survival and more like choice. Small daily changes protect both your mind and your creative fire. Pick one “one weird thing” to try for seven days and jot a quick note on stress levels, sleep, and creative clarity, then do a brief personal growth reflection at the end. That kind of attention turns emotional wellbeing tips into resilience you can keep using when the next dark season shows up.

Guest blog post by Stephanie Haywood, read her previous guest blog post HERE and HERE or visit her website: MY LIFE BOOST.

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How to Outsmart Seasonal Depression (Before It Steals Your Snacks)

Ah yes, seasonal depression—also known as That Time of Year When the Sun Disappears and So Does My Motivation. The days get shorter, the weather gets colder, and suddenly even basic tasks feel like heroic quests. If you find yourself wanting to hibernate until spring, you’re not alone.

The good news? While we can’t control the seasons, we can stack the odds in our favor. Here are some realistic, mood-boosting ways to help keep seasonal depression from running the show—no toxic positivity required.


1. Chase the Sun (or at Least Pretend)

When daylight is scarce, your brain notices—and it’s not thrilled about it. Try to get outside during daylight hours, even if it’s cloudy or cold. A quick walk, standing by a window, or dramatically staring at the sky like a Victorian poet all count.

If sunlight is truly in short supply, a light therapy lamp can help. Think of it as a tiny artificial sun that doesn’t burn your skin or judge your life choices.


2. Move Your Body (Gently, We’re Not Training for the Olympics)

Exercise helps boost mood, but let’s be clear: this does not mean you suddenly need to become a “winter fitness person.” Stretching, dancing in your kitchen, walking, or doing ten squats while waiting for your coffee to brew all qualify.

The goal is movement, not suffering.


3. Stick to a Routine (But Make It Cozy)

Seasonal depression loves chaos. Your brain, however, thrives on predictability. Try to keep regular sleep and wake times—even on weekends—so your internal clock doesn’t completely lose the plot.

Bonus points if your routine includes something cozy and enjoyable, like a nightly cup of tea, a favorite show, or aggressively comfortable pajamas.


4. Eat Foods That Love You Back

No, you don’t have to give up carbs (and anyone who suggests that should be ignored immediately). But try to balance comfort foods with meals that actually fuel you—think protein, fruits, veggies, and foods rich in vitamin D and omega-3s.

And yes, chocolate still counts as emotional support.


5. Stay Social (Even When You’d Rather Become a Hermit)

Seasonal depression often makes us want to cancel all plans and live exclusively with our blankets. While rest is important, total isolation usually makes things worse.

Low-effort connection counts: texting a friend, sending memes, or chatting with someone while running errands. You don’t need to host a dinner party—just remind your brain that humans exist and some of them are nice.


6. Lower the Bar (Seriously, Put It on the Floor)

Winter is not the time for reinventing yourself. It’s okay if you’re less productive, less energetic, or less enthusiastic than usual. You’re not failing—you’re responding to biology and weather.

Focus on small wins. Showered today? Win. Answered one email? Win. Didn’t scream into the void? Major win.


7. Ask for Backup When You Need It

If seasonal depression starts feeling heavy, persistent, or overwhelming, it’s important to talk to a professional. Therapy, medication, or both can be incredibly helpful—and needing support doesn’t mean you’re weak. It means you’re human.

Think of it as assembling your personal mental health Avengers.


Final Thoughts

Seasonal depression can be sneaky, stubborn, and downright rude—but it doesn’t get to define your entire winter. With a mix of light, movement, connection, kindness (especially toward yourself), and maybe an unreasonable number of blankets, you can get through the season with your sanity mostly intact.

Spring will come. Until then, do your best—and don’t forget to drink some water. 🌤️

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7 Tips to Stay Motivated This Winter

As the days get shorter and the temperatures drop, it can be easy to slip into a winter slump. The cold, the lack of sunlight, and the cozy call of blankets can make staying motivated feel like a Herculean task. But the good news is that winter doesn’t have to mean the end of your productivity or motivation. With a little adjustment to your routine and mindset, you can stay energized, focused, and inspired all season long.

Here are seven practical tips to help you feel motivated, even when the weather outside is frightful.

1. Embrace the Season with a Winter Wellness Routine

One of the best ways to stay motivated during winter is to set up a daily routine that prioritizes your physical and mental well-being. The colder months can often leave us feeling sluggish, but incorporating energizing activities into your day can keep your mood and productivity high.

  • Morning sunlight: Try to get outside in the morning to soak up some natural light. Even if it’s cloudy, natural daylight helps regulate your body’s circadian rhythm and boosts serotonin, which can fight off winter blues.
  • Exercise: Even if it’s too chilly for outdoor activities, find ways to stay active indoors. Yoga, stretching, or home workout routines can increase endorphins and combat feelings of lethargy.
  • Cold-weather skincare: Take care of your skin by moisturizing daily. This simple act can make you feel more refreshed and energized, setting a positive tone for the rest of the day.

2. Set Small, Achievable Goals

When it’s cold outside and motivation feels low, setting big goals can feel overwhelming. Instead, break them down into smaller, more manageable tasks. This approach helps create a sense of accomplishment without feeling drained by the thought of a large undertaking.

  • Focus on one task at a time and celebrate small wins along the way.
  • Use winter as an opportunity to work on personal growth or smaller projects you’ve put off.
  • Create a daily “priority list” of three achievable goals that will give you a sense of purpose and progress each day.

3. Create a Cozy, Inviting Workspace

When winter makes you crave warmth and comfort, create a space that encourages productivity and creativity. If you’re working from home, this is especially important. Here are a few ideas:

  • Add warm lighting, like a desk lamp with a soft glow, or string lights to make your space feel cozy.
  • Invest in a comfy chair or blanket to keep you warm while working.
  • Play soothing music or nature sounds to keep the mood calm and focused.
  • Surround yourself with inspiring quotes, winter-themed artwork, or seasonal plants like a small indoor cactus or a bright poinsettia.

4. Stay Connected with Others

Winter can sometimes lead to feelings of isolation, especially when it’s too cold to spend time outdoors with friends. However, staying connected to others can help keep you motivated and remind you that you’re not alone. Whether it’s joining virtual meetups, chatting with a friend over video calls, or participating in a social club, making time for social connections can be energizing.

  • Start a winter book club or virtual workout group.
  • Send quick “how’s it going?” texts to friends and family for a burst of connection.
  • Plan an indoor activity with friends, like cooking a seasonal meal or playing board games.

5. Practice Self-Compassion

It’s normal to feel less motivated during the winter months, and it’s okay to acknowledge that. Rather than beating yourself up for not being as productive as you’d like, practice self-compassion. Treat yourself with kindness, and understand that it’s natural for motivation to ebb and flow. Recognize your progress, even if it’s slower than usual.

  • Allow yourself rest days without guilt.
  • Remind yourself that every small effort counts, whether it’s finishing a project or simply getting out of bed.
  • Engage in positive self-talk: “I’m doing the best I can,” or “I’ll get back to it tomorrow.”

6. Take Advantage of Winter’s Slower Pace

The winter months often come with a natural slow-down. Many people take vacations or spend more time indoors, and the world outside seems to operate at a quieter pace. Use this slower rhythm to your advantage:

  • Prioritize reflection: Winter is a great time for introspection and setting goals for the upcoming year. Take some time to reflect on what you’ve accomplished so far and what you want to focus on next.
  • Learn something new: Whether it’s picking up a new hobby or learning a new skill, winter is the perfect time to dive into a project you’ve always wanted to explore.
  • Rest and recharge: Use the cold season to take breaks without feeling rushed. Sometimes, recharging your mental and emotional batteries is the most important form of productivity.

7. Focus on Seasonal Enjoyment

Rather than focusing on what the winter is “taking away” (like sunshine and warm temperatures), shift your attention to the things that make this season special. Sometimes, the best motivation comes from embracing the current season rather than resisting it.

  • Embrace winter hobbies: Whether it’s skiing, ice skating, or baking, lean into activities that only feel right in winter.
  • Seasonal traditions: Embrace winter holidays, traditions, or even personal rituals that bring you joy, like watching holiday movies, crafting, or decorating your space.
  • Mindful winter moments: Take a walk outside when it snows, or make a cup of hot chocolate and enjoy a moment of quiet peace. Savor these little joys to boost your mood and motivation.

Final Thoughts: Stay Cozy, Stay Motivated

Winter may seem like a time when motivation hibernates, but with a few simple strategies, you can keep your energy high and your focus sharp all season long. By establishing a routine that prioritizes well-being, setting small goals, staying connected, and practicing self-compassion, you can beat the winter blues and stay on track with your aspirations.

Remember, the winter months are just one season in a year full of opportunities. By embracing the changes that come with this time of year, you may find yourself not only surviving winter but thriving in it. Stay warm, stay motivated, and enjoy the beauty of the season!

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Book Review: Pieces of Me by Kate McLaughlin

It must be nice to live in a world where you don’t see the darkness in people.

PLOT SUMMARY:

When eighteen-year-old Dylan wakes up, she’s in an apartment she doesn’t recognize. The other people there seem to know her, but she doesn’t know them – not even the pretty, chiseled boy who tells her his name is Connor. A voice inside her head keeps saying that everything is okay, but Dylan can’t help but freak out. Especially when she borrows Connor’s phone to call home and realizes she’s been missing for three days.

Dylan has lost time before, but never like this.

Soon after, Dylan is diagnosed with Dissociative Identity Disorder, and must grapple not only with the many people currently crammed inside her head, but that a secret from her past so terrible she’s blocked it out has put them there. Her only distraction is a budding new relationship with Connor. But as she gets closer to finding out the truth, Dylan wonders: will it heal her or fracture her further?

GRADE: B+

REVIEW:

I’ve enjoyed this author’s previous books and overall this book was also enjoyable to read. The book quickly begins in a rush of events – kickstarting the protagonist Dylan’s journey. Dylan has DID but she doesn’t know it at first and loses track of time and wakes up in an unfamiliar location. Overall, I really enjoyed the novel because it was interesting to see how Dylan dealt with both this new diagnosis and how she dealt with her past trauma that caused her personality to split. My only issue was that everyone in Dylan’s life was so supportive of her and her condition – her mother, her best friend, her new boyfriend, and even her stepmom and dad. The only person who wasn’t as supportive right away was her twin brother. Now, I haven’t met anyone with DID so I don’t know how accurate the portrayal was – however the fact that everyone quickly accepted, and she faced no struggles felt a little unrealistic. But I could suspend belief for the sake of the story because I really did enjoy the narrative and the characters we got to meet – especially all of Dylan’s alters.

I recommend this book for those who have an interest in DID that isn’t in a horror setting (as it often is used).

*Thank you so much to NetGalley and Wednesday Books for the digital copy of this book in exchange for an honest review!

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Book Review: Jack Kerouac is Dead to Me by Gae Polisner

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“I lie back on his pillow, my head spinning, and for one split second, I think how crazy it will be when I get home and tell Aubrey everything. But that’s wrong: that won’t happen. She and I are barely friends anymore.”

Release Date: April 7, 2020

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Publisher: Wednesday Books

Price: $18.99 (hardcover)

Plot Summary:

Fifteen-year-old JL Markham’s life used to be filled with carnival nights and hot summer days spent giggling with her forever best friend Aubrey about their families and boys. Together, they were unstoppable. But they aren’t the friends they once were.
With JL’s father gone on long term business, and her mother struggling with her mental illness, JL takes solace in the tropical butterflies she raises, and in her new, older boyfriend, Max Gordon. Max may be rough on the outside, but he has the soul of a poet (something Aubrey will never understand). Only, Max is about to graduate, and he’s going to hit the road – with or without JL.

JL can’t bear being left behind again. But what if devoting herself to Max not only means betraying her parents, but permanently losing the love of her best friend? What becomes of loyalty, when no one is loyal to you?

Gae Polisner’s Jack Kerouac is Dead to Me is a story about the fragility of female friendship, of falling in love and wondering if you are ready for more, and of the glimmers of hope we find by taking stock in ourselves.

Grade: B+

Review:

This novel was a well-written contemporary YA that is full of heart and emotions by the bucket loads. The entire book is written in epistolary mode, as JL writing a letter to her childhood friend Aubrey that she’s no longer close to anymore (and that’s killing her inside).

JL is dealing with a lot of issues for just being a teen: her dad has left for an undetermined amount of time for California, which means that she has to deal with her mother’s depression/dissociative disorder on her own. Although she does have her grandmother check in on her and her mom (but her grandmother prefers to remain in denial about her mother’s true condition rather than face the bleak truth). JL spends her days taking care of her mother, raising butterflies, and hanging out with her 19-years old boyfriend.

This book doesn’t hold back any punches. It’s easy for the reader to become easily invested in JL’s struggles and wanting to root for this girl. This novel is raw and gritty and maybe a bit too realistic if you’re looking for any escapism, but it’s emotionally gripping from the very beginning till the very end. You won’t regret delving into this book if you’re looking for something with more heart and less fluff with a dash of darkness.

*Thank you so much to NetGalley and Wednesday Books for the digital copy of this book in exchange for an honest review!

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